download (52)I am a woman, and yet  I seriously do not understand women.

We are so mean. Mean to other women. Nasty, bitter and vicious.

Maybe there is some weird throwback that I missed where we are fighting for the limited sperm on earth?


But why the hell do we have to be so mean about it?

Cause yes, women are mean.
And they are mostly mean to other women.

Honestly, I am getting kind of done of it. I am starting to limit my friendships in the effort of protecting myself from women who seem “nice” at the beginning and turn into psychopaths after a few months or years.

The whole “single white female” thing – yup, I get it.

By really girls? Why the hell are we attacking each other? Why are we pegging each other as the enemy? Maybe we need something to fight for side by side again? Perhaps a good bra burning will bring us all together in harmony?

Or perhaps, we will still back stab and attack each other, and gossip, or stomp on each others confidence?

I, for one, am done.

I am hanging out with boys.

Or at least women who act like boys.

Bring on the beer.



A mom who knew there had to be more than an overwhelming suburban life filled with good jobs and soccer practices, Julie swept her family off onto a small island in BC to start over! Craving a life of fulfillment she blogs about facing fears and courageously going after your dreams! She believes that if you do something, you should do it fully: eat butter, sweat hard and laugh till you pee. Julie’s blog is filled with stories of how her family adapts and continues to strive for a fulfilled life… while enjoying a few perks along the way!


  1. Raising my beer class to you! Clink
    Great post, hopefully some of the bitches out there read it and figure out why they don’t have any more people to sucker punch.

  2. I wonder if the social reality of women back biting each other comes from the fact that we hold each other to a higher standard than we do men? We expect our sisters not to sleep with our husbands, to take care of each other’s children, and to be emotionally stable and supportive. When they aren’t we eat each other alive.

  3. This is evolution pure and simple. Men fought with their fists but women had to protect themselves physically because there were/are the breeders. So, they found “safer” ways to compete.

    One day we may evolve right out of this but it’s going to take a while…

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