If you have a son, I’m sure you’re too exhausted to even read this.

But you may want to pay attention because I think I’m onto something. At the very least, you may feel a temporary sense of relief.

When my son was a toddler, he was an active (and adorable) little guy. He started walking around furniture at 8 months, running at 11 months. And he honestly hasn’t stopped since.

Through the years, I can safely say I never sat down to eat a full meal. I never had a complete adult conversation. Nor could I shower, write or pa-diddle in peace.

My cutie always had to be doing something. He always had to know where mommy was. He always wanted to play. To race. To climb things. Get into things. To get into mischief when Mom was on the phone. To play with friends. To watch this, but not that.

He liked going on certain errands with Mom. Like the bank (for free lollipops). The dry cleaners (for free candy). The post office (for a free dinosaur stamp). The coffee shop (for not-so-free hot chocolate). We’d go to the zoo, and he’d want to see everything FIVE MINUTES AGO. “The gorilla is cool. OK, let’s go see the tigers now, Mommy.”  He had an attention span the size of an old man’s bladder.

We literally flew in and out of museums, aquariums, libraries and zoos in record time.  He’d probably zip through the Louvre in 35 minutes had I ever taken him to Paris. (With an occasional, “What’s that leaf doing THERE, mommy?”)

I used to PRAY for naptime. (For both of us, because I was so incredibly exhausted with my little adventure-seeker, and I was pregnant with my daughter when he was 2!)

Now, my son is 12. And I can assure you, boys get easier with age. I swear they do.

They start out exhausting you physically with their active imaginations and little energizer busy-bee bodies. Then before you know it, their khakis are floating above their ankles because they grew another two inches. And they want a cell phone.

I promise you, boys DO get easier. And I’ll tell you WHY boys get easier with age:

  • As they get older, boys will stop following you around the house like a puppy dog. In fact, they won’t want to be seen with you in public (unless they are at a high school football game asking for money for the concession stand).
  • The older boys get, the less they want to go on errands, so there’s no need to stress about shopping with them. My son is 12 and he actually tells me, “Mom, go. Have fun. I’ll stay home with dad!”
  • When boys are home, which is VERY often in the tween years, they are not nagging you as often because they’re either shooting baskets or playing Xbox with their friends.
  • As they get older, boys are 100% potty trained. So you can rest-assured that this won’t be a problem when they reach junior high. They also hate wearing clean underwear, so you won’t have to do as much laundry.
  • When boys become tweens, they calm down. REALLY calm down. In fact, some days, trying to get them to move from one place to another is like pulling teeth.
  • Boys only interrupt your adult conversations to ask for money or food.
  • If boys could stay inside the entire weekend playing video games with friends, they probably would. But I am obviously the “fun eraser” because I “force” my son to have fun outside with his friends. (My son stayed home sick recently and I let him have full reign of the electronics to help cheer him up. Aside from meal times, if it were not for the occasional flush, no one could tell he was even home.)
  • As boys get older, they don’t talk as much. And they no longer over-share. The “I peed in so-and-so’s yard and accidentally broke a window” becomes “Whatevs, mom” “Can I buy this App?” and my personal favorite, “Good night, mom. I love you”.


About the author: Jackie Hennessey is a Rhode Island mom who gets what other mothers go through. Having worked full-time, part-time, and been a stay-at-home mom too, she sees motherhood from a variety of angles. And thankfully, with a sense of humor. Jackie blogs about her take on motherhood at ventingsessions.com and writes about it in her book, How to Spread Sanity on a Cracker.


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  1. Great post and I have to agree with them all but one:
    May be 100% potty trained but I give their aim a generous 50%

    • Thank you, Astra! Oh my, I totally agree! Their aim is atrocious! We have to cover the heating vent next to our toilet with Rustoleum every year!

  2. As a mom of three boys…I’m boy excited and sad for this to happen. I might just enjoy it for a day and then cry. I love my snuggle bugs.

  3. I love this. My brothers were CRAZY as babies, but they are quite the gentlemen, almost 21 years later. All that energy has produced hard working, educated, loving men… and LOTS of bruises, broken glasses and chipped bumpers.

  4. This made me nod in agreement and laugh out loud. My boy is 2.5 and reading this makes me relieved and yet a little sad that my little bright eyed, hand-holding, mama’s boy will grow out of it.

  5. Great post! It’s so funny because I see such a difference in my 8-month old already! He is into everything! Nothing like his big sister. He has bounds of energy and kicks so much he could put a hole in the floor. Looking forward to what he’ll bring me in the future! 🙂

  6. LOVE this. Our third is a boy and just shy of his 4th birthday.
    He is exhausting. He doesn’t shut up and is in constant motion.
    to think that this might all get better is the light at the end of the tunnel I needed today!

  7. You were describing my son as a toddler! This kid was moving around so much in utero that we should realized it was a glimpse into the future. He is almost 7 and he never stops moving or chatting. I’m a little afraid of the day he stops saying, “Mommy can I tell you something?” Hope it never happens.

  8. As a mom of two boys this is both earth shatteringly exciting and heartbreaking. I’m going to go squeeze them and take away their iPad now.

  9. Great post! I am lucky that all three boys still want to go on errands for the free food and tell me they love me every day before they leave for school. I feel that boys and moms have a special relationship mostly because they spend the rest of their lives making up for their toddler years.

  10. You e made me scared. The toddler you have described is my daughter through and through. If my 2 month old boy is going to be worse… Maybe I need to return him!

  11. Great article, I too have boys and can affirm that they do indeed get easier with age. The best part is when they are young adults and are happy to help mom, as long as there is food in it for them. Boys are a wonderful gift.

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