Over the course of the past year I became a joiner; I signed up to do various volunteer jobs.  I started making new friends and meeting them for coffee and lunch.  And I began this blog.

Which is all well and good when your life is organized in the first place.  But when things are in such a constant state of chaos, as they are here on a good day, let alone with the way things have been the past year, it might be a bad idea.  It feels like it goes directly against the advice that is given on every flight about putting your own oxygen mask on before you assist others.  How can I help other people when I can hardly breathe myself?  But I often find myself saying yes.  Or volunteering to do something.  Not because I feel like I have to, but because I really enjoy helping out, and meeting with people.  I especially enjoy the opportunity to be more involved with the kids’ school, and get more information about how they are doing.

But my house is suffering. . .  CONTINUE READING 

 

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Tara is gainfully employed by the toughest 3 female bosses she has ever had (well except for that one accounting manager who hated her). The pay sucks, but the cuddles are awesome. She drinks a lot of coffee, uses humour as a defense mechanism, and lives in fear of what lurks in her backyard. Keep Tara company on her unfortunately-named blog Don’t Lick the Deck, where she talks about her husband Nerdguy; her 10 year old and twin 8 year old girls; parenting autism and ADHD; and her inability to shop without creating disaster. She is regular contributor to Parentdish.ca who have not yet filed a restraining order.

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